- The right person for me is the one that never leaves. No matter the difficulty in our arguments, he would stay. Because being without me would be worse than anything else imaginable.
And that's when you know you've got a keeper on your hands, until then I will never settle for less. He can be anybody, but without the actual will and desirability for me I can't see myself in a relationship that probably will end soon anyways. I would rather stay single and happy than unhappy with a man. Sure it must flow both ways, and this is why relationships are so hard.
27 January 2012
Stupidness.
- It is so sad to witness someone falling prey for their own insecurities. Sadest part is they are hurting themselves the most. Sure I might take a hit, but they are the ones left with a burning scar imprinted in their long-term memory.
16 January 2012
Success.
When it is all you can think about. When your mind is focused around this very goal. When you want it as much as you need to breath. Success. The lifestyle we all should aspire to. Never settle, always reach higher. When the mornings all of a sudden become beautiful just because you woke up and the first thing on your mind is the picture of where you want to be in 5, 10 or maybe 20 years from now. We are all different and therefore come with different lifegoals. Some want to raise a family and become exceptional at it. Others want to run a business and some may have it as a goal to just get by in life because that satisfies what they want for themselves. All are perfect in their own sense, as long as the goal you have set up for yourself gives you goosebumps by the thought of actually reaaching it one day.
The best feeling I know is waking up in the morning and not feel worry, or doubt because I have something yearning inside of me. Something strong enough making me go to school which I have done in a rigid manner all my life. Why? Because this is my greatest investment in the life I want to build. There is no second-guessing when it comes to achieve not only what you want or what you deserve, but what you are capable of as the individual you are. There is nothing standing in the way of greatness but your own fear, run towards them and you will see that getting hurt isn't as bad as you thought and after that you have a new experience as reference in the meeting of your coming challenge. Challenges are the milestones of your success, without them you can't know if you've made it or not.
If you know what you're doing and why you're doing it, success is waiting for you in the next crossing of risk and opportunity.
The best feeling I know is waking up in the morning and not feel worry, or doubt because I have something yearning inside of me. Something strong enough making me go to school which I have done in a rigid manner all my life. Why? Because this is my greatest investment in the life I want to build. There is no second-guessing when it comes to achieve not only what you want or what you deserve, but what you are capable of as the individual you are. There is nothing standing in the way of greatness but your own fear, run towards them and you will see that getting hurt isn't as bad as you thought and after that you have a new experience as reference in the meeting of your coming challenge. Challenges are the milestones of your success, without them you can't know if you've made it or not.
If you know what you're doing and why you're doing it, success is waiting for you in the next crossing of risk and opportunity.
8 December 2011
I choose to say no.
"People who respect your decision to say no are the ones who care, the ones who don't are trying to control you."
- Who do we owe our will to? Nobody. You choose. Your birth meant a divine right to be selfgoverning in practicing that power. When people don't use their power which is a birthright, they give it to someone else, meaning this person will have the power of two in their hands. When have that ever been good?
Honor yourself by standing your ground. Don't forgot who you are and where you came from. I'm not necessarily talking about cultural heritage, rather the deeper you, the individual inside of you. Go back to hear that voice inside your head, that voice that guides but so often is being shut down by the power of the ego or fear. Go back to who you are. Start listening to yourself. Ask of yourself and you shall recieve. The visions and goals formed inside your mind have, with your increased power, the ability to come true. Because believe it or not, everybody were born as innocent babies with no information - all equal in mind.
Serve your ego positive affirmations everyday - "I have power!", "Life loves me", "I deserve to be at peace."
When you start feeling like a non-believer in your own life, a prisoner of your own negative thoughts and caged inside your mind; also know this: you have the ability to change that story. Imagination is what fuels us. Feed of of it and don't let yourself starve when the garden is full of it in your own backyard.
- Who do we owe our will to? Nobody. You choose. Your birth meant a divine right to be selfgoverning in practicing that power. When people don't use their power which is a birthright, they give it to someone else, meaning this person will have the power of two in their hands. When have that ever been good?
Honor yourself by standing your ground. Don't forgot who you are and where you came from. I'm not necessarily talking about cultural heritage, rather the deeper you, the individual inside of you. Go back to hear that voice inside your head, that voice that guides but so often is being shut down by the power of the ego or fear. Go back to who you are. Start listening to yourself. Ask of yourself and you shall recieve. The visions and goals formed inside your mind have, with your increased power, the ability to come true. Because believe it or not, everybody were born as innocent babies with no information - all equal in mind.
Serve your ego positive affirmations everyday - "I have power!", "Life loves me", "I deserve to be at peace."
When you start feeling like a non-believer in your own life, a prisoner of your own negative thoughts and caged inside your mind; also know this: you have the ability to change that story. Imagination is what fuels us. Feed of of it and don't let yourself starve when the garden is full of it in your own backyard.
3 December 2011
The Power of a Smile
"The power of a gun can kill;
and the power of Fire can Burn;
The power of wind can chill;
and the power of the mind can learn;
The power of anger can rage
inside until it tears us apart
But the Power of a Smile
especially yours can heal a frozen Heart."
- Tupac Shakur
and the power of Fire can Burn;
The power of wind can chill;
and the power of the mind can learn;
The power of anger can rage
inside until it tears us apart
But the Power of a Smile
especially yours can heal a frozen Heart."
- Tupac Shakur
16 November 2011
Who do you think you are? I am brilliant.
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
8 November 2011
Anger, fly away.
"Are you proud of the energetic you've offered to the universe, remaining in anger with someone for either a short or longer period of time?"
- It's about releasing whatever it is you have attached to the experience that made you angry in the first place. Forgive yourself for all your judgements towards the person you're being angry towards and realize it's a two-way street. Realize that in life we are never given more than we can handle, because if you're reading this it means you're still alive and breathing - the experience didn't kill you.
It was a blessing in disguise, but in the midst of it all you were too blind to see. As soon as you get away and dodge that bullet, you gradually start to gain perspective and insight. Insight in the form that, hey it wasn't all my fault, or maybe you thought you was at fault because somebody clouded your judgement.
Important thing: it's not about who was at fault it's about how quickly you are willing to acknowledge the pain and dig deep in order to heal and ultimately learn from it. Anger is a state of mind, beneath it lies alot of pain and grievance - don't be afraid to deal with it and forgive yourself. Because you can't sit around waiting for somebody else to forgive you when they might never realize that their forgivness comes from within.
"Create what you want instead of being stuck in what you didn't have."
- It's about releasing whatever it is you have attached to the experience that made you angry in the first place. Forgive yourself for all your judgements towards the person you're being angry towards and realize it's a two-way street. Realize that in life we are never given more than we can handle, because if you're reading this it means you're still alive and breathing - the experience didn't kill you.
It was a blessing in disguise, but in the midst of it all you were too blind to see. As soon as you get away and dodge that bullet, you gradually start to gain perspective and insight. Insight in the form that, hey it wasn't all my fault, or maybe you thought you was at fault because somebody clouded your judgement.
Important thing: it's not about who was at fault it's about how quickly you are willing to acknowledge the pain and dig deep in order to heal and ultimately learn from it. Anger is a state of mind, beneath it lies alot of pain and grievance - don't be afraid to deal with it and forgive yourself. Because you can't sit around waiting for somebody else to forgive you when they might never realize that their forgivness comes from within.
"Create what you want instead of being stuck in what you didn't have."
2 November 2011
I don't look back
When things end, they end for a reason as most things happen for a reason. The past is called the past because you're getting past it everyday. Never look back, keep looking forward and remember that each day is a new opportunity in shaping your future.
Sometimes things never change, as most people are reluctant to change themselves. When you master the art of embracement, you have realized that you are a product of change. Change is the one thing that is constant in our lives, we might as well work with it and not against it. When you try to swim upstream facing nature, you will only hurt yourself in the end. Realize what is happening, adjust and change.
Create new memories with the blessing of a new day.
Sometimes things never change, as most people are reluctant to change themselves. When you master the art of embracement, you have realized that you are a product of change. Change is the one thing that is constant in our lives, we might as well work with it and not against it. When you try to swim upstream facing nature, you will only hurt yourself in the end. Realize what is happening, adjust and change.
Create new memories with the blessing of a new day.
24 October 2011
Forgiveness
"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong."
- This act, this sweet, innocent, mighty and powerful act is all we need in life next to love. They say love is all we need, but love only exists where imperfection is acknowledged and yet it doesn't drive the person away. It is so pure in it's highest form, because it embraces the good and the bad and through the eyes of love and forgviness there can be no harm. Forgiveness teaches compassion and kindness. To those who have never been forgiven before, it may open a new world to their otherwise narrow mind that doesn't allow them to see to the core of a true person. When a person has been nothing but true all the way and one time acts in a way that may hurt another, adress the issue and talk about it don't assume, don't judge, and don't exclude the other person of your feelings - they have a right to know. They also have a right to explain themselves, because believe there will come a day when you yourself will look for forgiveness. If you won't get it you'll feel that agonizing feeling of being mistreated and unfairly judged. When you love someone you don't let that person walk away, and you don't shut the door in their face as they are trying to reach out to you.
Treat people how you yourself want to be treated.
- This act, this sweet, innocent, mighty and powerful act is all we need in life next to love. They say love is all we need, but love only exists where imperfection is acknowledged and yet it doesn't drive the person away. It is so pure in it's highest form, because it embraces the good and the bad and through the eyes of love and forgviness there can be no harm. Forgiveness teaches compassion and kindness. To those who have never been forgiven before, it may open a new world to their otherwise narrow mind that doesn't allow them to see to the core of a true person. When a person has been nothing but true all the way and one time acts in a way that may hurt another, adress the issue and talk about it don't assume, don't judge, and don't exclude the other person of your feelings - they have a right to know. They also have a right to explain themselves, because believe there will come a day when you yourself will look for forgiveness. If you won't get it you'll feel that agonizing feeling of being mistreated and unfairly judged. When you love someone you don't let that person walk away, and you don't shut the door in their face as they are trying to reach out to you.
Treat people how you yourself want to be treated.
22 October 2011
20 October 2011
And it was all a lie...
"The true hypocrite is the one who ceases to perceive his deception, the one who lies with sincerity."
19 October 2011
Realize your strength
"The last of human freedoms - the ability to chose one's attitude in a given set of circumstances."
17 October 2011
Brush it off
"You gotta get that dirt of your shoulder." - Jay-Z
- When someone disrepects you in any way shape or form don't seek vengeance, brush it off like it's nothing and rise above it.
- When someone disrepects you in any way shape or form don't seek vengeance, brush it off like it's nothing and rise above it.
We only get one chance at life.
“If someone wants to walk out of your life, let them.”
- Right now, this moment tonight I am feeling very inspired and full of life because everyday I keep realizing that life is so much bigger than me, it is bigger than all of us. There is no point whatsoever nagging and holding grudges about small things that aren’t even going to make any sense later in the future. If you know now already that what is bothering you will have no place in your future LET IT GO! JUST LET IT GO!! It is a complete waste of energy when you could spend that time being happy and focus on things that actually matters for YOU.
- Right now, this moment tonight I am feeling very inspired and full of life because everyday I keep realizing that life is so much bigger than me, it is bigger than all of us. There is no point whatsoever nagging and holding grudges about small things that aren’t even going to make any sense later in the future. If you know now already that what is bothering you will have no place in your future LET IT GO! JUST LET IT GO!! It is a complete waste of energy when you could spend that time being happy and focus on things that actually matters for YOU.
14 October 2011
Life will bring you there
Set goals in life but don't let it define who you are. You will eventually reach those goals and when you do, you will want to set new goals to achieve. When it comes to life and getting what you think you deserve, the human being never seems to be satisfied. In my opinion, that is a good thing. But, only if you learn to enjoy the process of reaching a goal, thus it is where the true lesson lies.
13 October 2011
I will rise
"You may shoot me with your words,
you may cut me with your eyes,
you may kill me with your hatefulness.
But still, like air - I'll rise."
- We all have it in us. It all begins with our thoughts, they form us into whatever we want to be and exactly who we want to become. For every bad situation that doesn't kill you, you always have the choice to learn from it and rise.
you may cut me with your eyes,
you may kill me with your hatefulness.
But still, like air - I'll rise."
- We all have it in us. It all begins with our thoughts, they form us into whatever we want to be and exactly who we want to become. For every bad situation that doesn't kill you, you always have the choice to learn from it and rise.
12 October 2011
11 October 2011
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