Love.

- The right person for me is the one that never leaves. No matter the difficulty in our arguments, he would stay. Because being without me would be worse than anything else imaginable.

And that's when you know you've got a keeper on your hands, until then I will never settle for less. He can be anybody, but without the actual will and desirability for me I can't see myself in a relationship that probably will end soon anyways. I would rather stay single and happy than unhappy with a man. Sure it must flow both ways, and this is why relationships are so hard.

Stupidness.

- It is so sad to witness someone falling prey for their own insecurities. Sadest part is they are hurting themselves the most. Sure I might take a hit, but they are the ones left with a burning scar imprinted in their long-term memory.

Success.

When it is all you can think about. When your mind is focused around this very goal. When you want it as much as you need to breath. Success. The lifestyle we all should aspire to. Never settle, always reach higher. When the mornings all of a sudden become beautiful just because you woke up and the first thing on your mind is the picture of where you want to be in 5, 10 or maybe 20 years from now. We are all different and therefore come with different lifegoals. Some want to raise a family and become exceptional at it. Others want to run a business and some may have it as a goal to just get by in life because that satisfies what they want for themselves. All are perfect in their own sense, as long as the goal you have set up for yourself gives you goosebumps by the thought of actually reaaching it one day.

The best feeling I know is waking up in the morning and not feel worry, or doubt because I have something yearning inside of me. Something strong enough making me go to school which I have done in a rigid manner all my life. Why? Because this is my greatest investment in the life I want to build. There is no second-guessing when it comes to achieve not only what you want or what you deserve, but what you are capable of as the individual you are. There is nothing standing in the way of greatness but your own fear, run towards them and you will see that getting hurt isn't as bad as you thought and after that you have a new experience as reference in the meeting of your coming challenge. Challenges are the milestones of your success, without them you can't know if you've made it or not.

If you know what you're doing and why you're doing it, success is waiting for you in the next crossing of risk and opportunity.

I choose to say no.

"People who respect your decision to say no are the ones who care, the ones who don't are trying to control you."

- Who do we owe our will to? Nobody. You choose. Your birth meant a divine right to be selfgoverning in practicing that power. When people don't use their power which is a birthright, they give it to someone else, meaning this person will have the power of two in their hands. When have that ever been good?

Honor yourself by standing your ground. Don't forgot who you are and where you came from. I'm not necessarily talking about cultural heritage, rather the deeper you, the individual inside of you. Go back to hear that voice inside your head, that voice that guides but so often is being shut down by the power of the ego or fear. Go back to who you are. Start listening to yourself. Ask of yourself and you shall recieve. The visions and goals formed inside your mind have, with your increased power, the ability to come true. Because believe it or not, everybody were born as innocent babies with no information - all equal in mind.

Serve your ego positive affirmations everyday - "I have power!", "Life loves me", "I deserve to be at peace."

When you start feeling like a non-believer in your own life, a prisoner of your own negative thoughts and caged inside your mind; also know this: you have the ability to change that story. Imagination is what fuels us. Feed of of it and don't let yourself starve when the garden is full of it in your own backyard.

The Power of a Smile

"The power of a gun can kill;
and the power of Fire can Burn;
The power of wind can chill;
and the power of the mind can learn;
The power of anger can rage
inside until it tears us apart
But the Power of a Smile
especially yours can heal a frozen Heart."

- Tupac Shakur

Who do you think you are? I am brilliant.

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

Anger, fly away.

"Are you proud of the energetic you've offered to the universe, remaining in anger with someone for either a short or longer period of time?"

- It's about releasing whatever it is you have attached to the experience that made you angry in the first place. Forgive yourself for all your judgements towards the person you're being angry towards and realize it's a two-way street. Realize that in life we are never given more than we can handle, because if you're reading this it means you're still alive and breathing - the experience didn't kill you.
It was a blessing in disguise, but in the midst of it all you were too blind to see. As soon as you get away and dodge that bullet, you gradually start to gain perspective and insight. Insight in the form that, hey it wasn't all my fault, or maybe you thought you was at fault because somebody clouded your judgement.

Important thing: it's not about who was at fault it's about how quickly you are willing to acknowledge the pain and dig deep in order to heal and ultimately learn from it. Anger is a state of mind, beneath it lies alot of pain and grievance - don't be afraid to deal with it and forgive yourself. Because you can't sit around waiting for somebody else to forgive you when they might never realize that their forgivness comes from within.

"Create what you want instead of being stuck in what you didn't have."